This is a piece of advice I have not wavered from for small space families. it’s something I recommend either when siblings start sharing a room or when they reach an age where they start to play more independently. Consider giving the larger bedroom to the kids. They will use the space better than you can. It can be hard to find enough play space in a smaller second bedroom, usually they only fit beds. Bunk beds and loft beds can help with this, but having some extra floor space to play and be messy can be really nice. Giving the larger room to the kids may allow you to comfortably stay in your small space for longer than you expected. This simple and affordable switch could be just what you need. So please let me make this argument. And I say this as someone who gave up their bedroom entirely for 7.5 years ;).

What do you use your bedroom for?
Most adults only use their bedroom to sleep. They are rarely using their bedroom for additional things like a workout space or hobby room. Mostly the extra space is empty, which is lovely but when every inch counts for a small space-living family have that square footage work for you.

Sure you may only be able to fit a bed and tiny nightstands and wall sconces if you trade rooms with your kids but what more do you really need?

Extra play space

Swapping bedrooms with the kids should allow them to play and grow in their room for many years past what you may have thought was possible in your space. You could add a swing or desks or a lego station, whatever mosts interests them. All the things you thought you couldn’t fit in a small space. Or leave all the space open and just include a soft rug. Some shared kids room inspiration over HERE.

I’ve also found with a bit more room to play in the bedroom, the living room can be kept for the whole family to enjoy and not just an extension of the kids room/playroom.

Closet space

When I make the argument to give up the larger bedroom to the kids, closets often come up… the main bedroom usually has the larger closet. You have a few options here. Use a hallway closet as an additional closet for the adults. Or if you are in the reno-ing mood, you could consider removing the exisitng closet and replace with more efficient floor to ceiling wardrobes.

Also it may be worth considering editing your wardrobe, are you really wearing all those clothes? Is there seasonal swapping that could happen to minimize your immediate wardrobe and store out of season items out of your immediate bedroom?

Also consider getting creative with your closets… our family has shared a closet in both our apartments and it has served us just fine.

Our current bedroom by Modern Nest Photography

Hotel Style

While it may feel like a downgrade to give up the larger bedroom there are things you can do to make your bedroom feel special. Invest in bed linens and pillows that make your bed feel like a hotel. Light a candle. Have great lighting, like a soft overhead pendant and wall sconces for reading. Love everything about your new small bedroom and you won’t miss the extra space and laundry chair!

It’s Free

Swapping rooms may take a little sweat but it’s completely free and may change how you use and view your space. It doesn’t require additional furniture or a purchase of any kind.

You Should Give the Bigger Bedroom to the Kids, Hear Me Out